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They will greatly help you determine which site(s) are best for your needs. "Any guy who's complaining about being single, and who at this late date does not have an online profile as part of his diversified dating portfolio, should stop complaining," says Lynn Harris, a journalist who helps online daters perfect their profiles at Normally I don't recommend props, and normally I'd be suspicious of a show-off. What I won't respond to is a photo of a shirtless man -- even if you're on the beach; even if you have It's like freshman comp:* Show, don't tell. Make sure the photo is taken up close and in focus -- no sunglasses, no hats. One man I went out with had a profile shot of himself at the wheel of a sailboat: superhot.(It's a half-assed message that says my profile caught your eye.) I'm not so crazy about the IM option, either. In the subject line, most guys write "Hi" or "Hey," so at least add my user name.Or write something like "Caring is creepy," because my profile says I like the soundtrack. It doesn't matter much what you say in your message.Make a connection based on something you noticed in my profile.Say that of all the women you saw online, I'm the one who stood out.E-mailing a woman who's in the serious-relationship category when you're listed in intimate encounters is a waste of time -- and, really, it's rude and creepy.Shout-out to the guys who want to "play": No, I will not meet you on the 6 train. Very important: If you're just looking for sex, make sure you're targeting women who are clearly doing the same.On most sites, you can specify whether you're looking for play or intimate encounters, friendship, dating, or a serious relationship.