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During this 15 minute presentation, illustrated by power point slides flashing on a screen, participants will learn where and how to search for a spouse, how to write an effective profile of themselves, how to dress and present themselves to the opposite sex, as well as how to establish communication with a potential partner.
Mirzan wants to make it clear to everyone: looking for a spouse is a full time job.
Like when one is hunting for a job, “one’s best allies are friends and family”.
“Partners should be looked for everywhere: at the work place or at the university”, participants are told.
Mirzan sites various reasons for this: parents are not always able to introduce potential spouses.
Second and third generations are not very keen to marry a relative or someone coming from the ‘village’, poorly versed in English or/and poorly educated.
The dress code goes from the most conservative to the latest Islamic (or simply metropolitan) chic.
Visitors are given a number as they register so that anonymity is preserved.On the poster installed at the entrance of the room, one can read: “Don’t date! Mirzan has been a board member of a shariah council a while back: it is this experience that made him aware of the need for such a service as more and more Muslims are getting divorced nowadays – a fact that reflects a broader trend within the general British population.However, match making, even under an Islamic framework, remains controversial: Mirzan admits receiving regular threats from Muslims who consider his activity haram (illicit) and contrary to Islam.One of the documents is entitled ‘general etiquette’.Some lines attract my amused attention: Participants gradually fill the room.“Re-building the Muslim nation is the best way to find a partner. No one will help you if you don’t help yourself first! Your family from now on is your cell phone and the internet!Charity work is always a good option: when you give something out of pure generosity, you always get something back from Allah! Success depends on three things: 1) your intention: you need to be ready for marriage, 2) your attitude: it has to be right, 3) success is from Allah!The ‘marriage events’ organised by the Islamic Circles take place at Bircbeck College, in central London, usually on Sundays. Mirzan Raja, the organiser, has run the Islamic Circle for the past 12 years.These events are meant to provide a service to the Muslim community by helping single Muslims find the ‘right marriage partner’. He is a 37-year-old father of two, born in England from Indian Muslim parents.No later than last week, an angry woman spat at him during the marriage event he organised in the context of the Global Peace and Unity conference at Ex Cel.Nevertheless, the popularity of his events has not ceased to grow as the continuous flow of participants entering the room on this early Sunday afternoon testifies.